Unfortunately, since I have been constantly reminded by the narc that I am “old” now, and his cheating conquests have all been barely legal girls, it is something that bothers me. I do lie about my age, because I can get away with it, it’s fun, and it does make me feel better.
I’m deathly afraid of looking “old” and unattractive. Of not being wanted.
freefromnarcissisticabuse 
He is reminding you of this because he knows it’s your week spot. If you were worried about being stupid, that’s what he would focus on.
The key for you is to come to terms with your own aging…be the best you can be, or not. Just get comfortable with it.
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You’re exactly right. It’s funny because a lot of younger guys (early to mid twenties) find me hugely attractive, and they are equally yummy! Too bad that scenario doesn’t have staying power. 🙂
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omg – I actually found a really great guy now, who is 25, a gorgeous hunk, who cherishes me to no end.
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